If he wants to break up, why doesn't he just tell me?

I went through something similar recently. (Maybe it's the same guy lol). Let's be upfront here, he's pulled a vanishing act. He was never in love with you, he was probably excited about the idea of you at first and his hormones were going crazy, but someone who's in love doesn't blow you off for days at a time no matter how busy he is. One thing I've learned through experience is that when someone comes on as strong as he did, the whole relationship winds up being short lived. The fact that he said he loved you that soon was a HUGE red flag. (Don't feel bad, that's exactly what the guy I was involved with recently said, and I knew it was a red flag, and still chose to proceed). That's a sign of immaturity right there. Love doesn't happen all at once, it's a process that involves getting to know someone. Someone who is telling you he loves you that soon in the relationship loves the way you look, or loves the idea of you, but that's not a basis of a lasting relationship. Also, these types of immature guys pull the ole vanishing act...they don't have the maturity to handle telling someone it's over, so they just cease all contact and hope you'll get the hint. Messed up, I know, and I felt the same way when it happened to me. Couldn't he at least have sent me an e-mail or a text to let me know it was time to move on? Leaving someone hanging is the cruelest thing someone could do to a girlfriend or a boyfriend. Bottom line, two weeks is too long to let this creep decide whether or not he wants to carry on with you. Even if he does, things are still going to continue as they had...the ignoring, the back and forth, etc etc. Do you want to keep on feeling the way you've been feeling indefinitely? No, you deserve better. Do yourself a favor, declare yourself single, delete him from your facebook because you don't want to see his updates, do your grieving and move on. This guy is unstable, and that's not going to change. He is not going to morph back into the loving, attentive person he was at first...that was an act. What you're seeing now is the way he really is, and I don't want to add to your pain, but there's a good chance that you were not the only person he's been seeing. Sometimes when someone chooses to be in a long distance relationship, it's because they have a main squeeze and want something on the side. I'm not sure that's what is happening her, but it's definitely a possibility you should consider.